Hi jatrax,
When removing the electric actuator portion, is there a "T" handle to move the valve manually? Or do you require a pliers or other tool to move it manually? It has been a number of years since I looked under our 11 year old PC during the open/close operation. In my head I recall seeing a "T" handle moving, but I might have recalled it all wrong. What has me a bit confused about the electro-mechanical tank valve, are the ones I find for sale on the internet.
Here is a typical mechanical tank valve with "T" handle.

Here is an electrically actuated tank valve without a "T" handle.

I did find what looks like an electronic actuator attached to a mechanical valve.
Do we have something like this?

About a 3rd valve.......
On our 11 year old PC, we have a manual gravity dump connection along with the Sani-Con system. It is setup with one gray tank valve and one black tank valve. We do not have a third tank valve, not electric, not mechanical. We only have a gasketed end cap that the stinky slinky attaches via the typical 4-prong connector.