Jeff,
As Don says, the converter/charger is typically built into the power distribution center (it's the lower section below where your 12-volt fuses and 120-volt breakers are located). In the photos you posted, it would be the unit where all those white and yellow wires tie in.
Regarding AGM battery brands--there are quite a few out there, and pricing varies. You probably know that for your house batteries, you're looking for deep cycle units--not cranking batteries. You'll see a lot of references to RVs using the Lifeline units. The AGM batteries that Phoenix installed as options in 2019 are Trojans (T105-AGM). They're a quality battery, and I can recommend them based on my experience with them.
Mike