OK, so we have a favorite choice. the ""Aqua-MagicŪ Style II Reliable Entry-Level Ceramic RV Toilet""

Ceramic bowl is a plus.
~30 pounds is ~22 pounds (!) heavier than our current Aqua Magic Style V is a negative.
EDIT - Camping world ad says ""The low profile model only 25 lbs."" but UNIT weight 35.2 pounds... (as shipped?) ( I got the other weight from Amazon..I think...)
AND...it has a full size seat. Missed that earlier. Now to re-fit the old commode and see how much clearance to the cabinet I can use up... another limiting factor.. Main 'sticking' point is the centerline distance from the flange to the back wall. the Model V needs 7 5/8". The Model II needs 9 1/2 inches.
Measuring the flange centerline distance to the wall in our camper I get.....9 1/2 inches.

Kinda close to the limit...
and *nowhere* so far have I found a picture of the water hookup on the lowpro model.
There is a Camping World store ~30 miles north of us, says they have the Model II in stock.
https://www.campingworld.com/aqua-magic-style-ii-low-profile-white-14-35652.html May have to go up and check out the water hookup, and see if it is even feasible. The seat area looks to be about the same. Extra bowl depth would be
MOST welcome for my comfort.
I am willing to 'clearance' the wall to accommodate the water hookup, if the bowl has a more favorable design.
Mrs V said she is willing to do a 'high steppin'

motion to use the pedal flush. She just went down to 'try' it figuring the pedal is ~6 inches above the pedestal height.
I have thought of a few 'hand conversion' ideas that will allow one to stand upright and work the flush by hand, should the pedal be too high.
Another one of interest is the dometic 321. FULL SIZE SEAT!

37 pounds.....whoa... adding around 29 pounds of toilet. But the full size seat... the install instructions are incomplete
https://www.dometic.com/assets/87/98/600346504_78798.pdf , page 5 , but LOOKS like it needs 10 or 11 inches from the back wall for the 32x series.....rats. BUT..the 300 series has a full size seat, no porcelain but only ~8 pounds.
https://www.amazon.com/Dometic-300-Profile-Toilet-Bone/dp/B00HR2OE4M See what tomorrow brings. Both the dometic 321 low pro white ($275) and the thetford model II ($199) are in stock at CW. That 300 series is looking like a contender, however.
@ LRUCH - Just read your post, indeed we have the gnats also. What hole did you seal? I found the only 'leak' to be that valve. We are in a bit of a time crunch to, with Thanksgiving travel coming soon. Might have to put in the old toilet back in for he weekend.
I can get pics of the back of my toilet if it helps you describe your fix.