I surely get that. You take care!
If only we had your problem. We have two granddaughters (5 and 2) but our daughter-in-law is "one of those people" if you get my drift. We had dreams of taking the little ones on weekend get-aways and maybe even on a longer trip, but they will remain dreams. We couldn't even take the girls out for icecream. We don't know what is going on with the next generation, but many are quick to fling their control and power around, especially when there is no call for it. I could understand if we were loose cannon people with bad habits, poor driving records, enjoy drinking a bit much, but we are squeaky clean. We would give our lives for our two granddaughters. I think our DIL finds our faith in God to be her "big" threat. Our son falls in line to maintain peace with her at our expense....he has been drinking the Kool-Aid over there. It has always been a "walking on egg shell" relationship taking the abuse over so many years, but late last year we challenged our DIL's behavior and now we're out of their lives. "Cancel Culture". Three months so far and we've had no contact with our granddaughters...no contact permitted in any fashion. How cruel some people are.
Sorry for getting off-topic here.