For what it's worth, I do not and have not had an accumulator. Yes, on occasion, in particular after being hooked to City water and then back on the pump, the pipes behind the toilet would rattle a lot. I have found getting the air out of the external AND internal shower head helps a lot.
I also had a problem with the low point drains not sealing properly and so the pressure would leak off. I replaced the low point drains with brass 1/4 turn ball valves. Unfortunately, I haven't had a chance to be on the road since I did that. Gopher has been in the shop getting the hail damage fixed. A lot of waiting for parts due to covid
Don