Update is... No update. We didn't get the spark plug out, didn't do the reset, stopped trying to start it. We've been on the road close to two weeks with no desire to lay over anywhere so no messing with it. Once we land in northwest Washington, we'll give it another go and hunt a mechanic if need be. After we veg a while.
Lots of driving, no playing, no touring, no restaurant meals, sleeping in rest areas and parking lots... Not our best trip but almost over. Just a few more days.