Hi BlueBlaze,
You ask some of the same questions I had before having towing experience. I can't answer them specifically, but can share my experiences.
Our PC is on a 2007 E350 chassis. Our first tow vehicle was a tiny 2000 Toyota MR2 Spyder which had a curb weight of 2100 pounds. Being so close to the 2000 pound legal limit (for most states back in 2007) for not requiring secondary braking, I setup our tow without it. I was very surprised how such a light weight vehicle could push so very hard when braking the E350 motor home. The difference between towing the MR2 and not towing was night and day. So when we switched from the 2100 pound MR2, to the 4300 pound Jeep Liberty, I had no second thoughts about secondary braking.......It is an "Absolute Must".
As far as which braking system to install, there are many different ones and many people like the ones they installed. And so here I am saying that I like our Unified tow brake by US Gear for it's ease of use and effective braking. Installation is not easy and is considered a permanent installation to the novice. But since I installed it myself, if we change tow vehicles, I will remove the system and install it into the next one.
BTW: Since you say you own a 2008 with a GVWR of 11,500 pounds, are you certain you own a 2008 chassis? I ask because the 2008's GVWR is 12,500 pounds. Your 2008 PC might be built on a 2007 chassis as is common practice.
It is very easy to tell if you have a 2007 or a 2008 E350 chassis. If you have the current-day van front style, you have a 2008 chassis. If you have the earlier style like mine has, then your E350 is a 2007.
Here is my 2007 front style.
The painted front bumper cover with fog lights was an extra Phoenix option so don't get confused about that.

Here is a 2008 which looks the same as a brand new 2017.

Ron