Ron and Tom,
Thanks for the additional posts that you've made. I'm slowly learning how to set up a 12v battery maintenance system for the CR-V. But, I'm still running into questions that might be too difficult to answer remotely on this Forum. If so, I'll wait until I can bring both the PC and CR-V to a shop to do this for me.
In any case, if you are curious as to what I've determined so far, here it is:
The good news is that the coach end of our coiy cable has 6 metal terminals and the towd end has 6 terminals.
So, I guess I can plug the coach end of the cable into the coach socket and test with my multimeter to see that we have 12v at the towd end of the cable. (Do I just insert the meter probes into terminals 1 and 4 to do this?).
If the above is correct, then we need to run a 12v wire from the towd's socket through a diode to the auto battery. Sounds easy!
The bad news is that we had Camping World install the tow bar and wiring on the CR-V and so far I haven't located a "rectangular 2 terminal diode" as mentioned in Ron's post.
Part of my problem in tracing the wiring on this project is that Camping World installed an Invisibrake at the same time. I can see the white, brown, yellow, and green wires running down to the towd's socket (these are for the towd's turn signal, tail, brake, & running lights--no problem here).
There is a red and a black wire attached to the towd's battery posts, but I can't see where they go (I'm guessing that they are for the Invisibrake control box located under the driver's seat).
And there are two black wires in wiring bundle that I assume are to connect the Invisibrake control box to the coach's brake lights. There is a single black wire (separate from the coily cable) that connects the coach and towd for the Invisibrake. Maybe the "rectangular 2 terminal diode" is also used by the Invisibrake system and is buried out of sight somewhere (I don't really know what to look for).
If nothing else, this project is good brain exercise for an old guy! Sharon always claims that I'm happiest when working on a project.

Bruce