Hi Holly,
This is worth a try.
Look in your Ford chassis owners manual under fuses and relays. I can't say for sure, but there may be a tail-light supporting relay located inside the fuse box under the hood. If there is, try this "only as an experiment" with the engine turned off.
Identify another "identical" relay used in a different non-essential assignment, HVAC for example. Remove it and install it in the tail light position and see if the fuse burns again. If the fuse does not burn up and the lights work, then you have a bad supporting relay. If the fuse burns up again, then you ruled-out the relay as the culprit.
Then revert everything back to "normal" all relays in their original positions and check to make sure your HVAC is working.
If you need a new relay, you can buy one from any auto parts store.
Usually when a relay goes bad, the circuit gets broken just like a fuse. But once in a great while, certain types of relays will short in such a way that it creates the fuse-burning condition you are experiencing.