FWIW, our pool guy says that Vaseline is NOT good to use on chlorinated water gaskets, says it 'gums up'. He swears by a product called...I kid you not.. Magic Lube. Says the teflon makes a huge difference when taking things apart later. It is also silicone based. He is in charge of ~200 residential pools here, so I will defer to his expertise.
Quick check says that Boss 820 (and my fav, Dielectric grease) are silicone based, (and no teflon). ""BOSS 820 Pool and Spa Lube is a silicon dioxide thickened, high molecular weight dimethyl polysiloxane-based material. It is a stiff, tacky dielectric compound with excellent water repellency"" source -
https://bestpoolshop.com/product/boss-820-silicone-lube-5-3oz-pool-and-spa-82000b/Vaseline is a mixture of mineral oils and waxes, petroleum based.
With almost all the 'rubber' today actually having no rubber in it, and being a petroleum based product, I try to avoid spreading other petroleum based products on it, as there might be unintended interaction. I use dielectric grease for all my 'rubber lubing' needs
in the mechanical world. NO, not for 'THAT' ..

.. but some here might remember hearing warnings about using Vaseline with condoms due to dissolving.