Breakers are fine.. the fridge is running on AC just not the AC.. Dumb question.. is there also a fuse? There a bunch of 20 amp fuses and 2 35 amp ones.. nothings is labeled
Thanks
Question...
Status: Generator off. A/C off. Fridge is running on shore power ("AC") . When you try to turn on the A/C , does the fridge display change at all? Blink?
A test... Rednek tested and approved.

Practice first, get the communications and timing set.
Two people needed. Shore power ready, plugged into the 'post'
but NOT into the coach. Generator running.
Put the A/C on fan only. any speed. Also start the fridge, set to AC power.
Now with the generator running, shout to your assistant and have them plug the shore power into the coach.
A/C still running? Fridge display ok? Wait one minute then check again.
Now have your assistant come in, and turn off the generator. Keep watching the fridge display. When the generator stops, what does the A/C do? Also note any changes in the fridge display.
I would do the same to my 2006 should I have the same situation you describe. It is very odd.
However, you do so at your own risk. For all you know I am a trained monkey typing on a phone.

This is the internet...

If any part of that test makes you uncomfortable, PLEASE do not try it.