We also bought a Rhino AND the support thingy and toted them all over the country. We've needed the 3" hose once, I think (maybe twice) and have never used the bulky support thingy. The hooks on our macerator cracked and opened up a leak when we ran it so we went with the 3" hose to dump then went for the macerator repair. The sales rep before Earl said I didn't need to carry one because all the campgrounds sell them. If there is a dump station, they usually sell the hose.
That said, many people keep the 3" hose hooked up when they are stationary for a while. It is quicker and quieter to dump that way. Some people also keep their grey tank open to drain through their 3" hose for most of their stay but I've read that isn't the best practice as you are opening a sewer vent so the fumes go up through your rig and out into the campground.
John has left the macerator hose out on the ground a few times to stay hooked up (valves closed) but I worry that hose will puncture.
As for length, it will depend on your camping style. If it is just for emergency use at dump stations, you just need a short hose as you drive right up to those. If it is to leave hooked up while camping, you'll need a longer one (or two short ones with connector) so that you can reach randomly placed drains at the campsites. We've had them placed at the rear of the site, right next to our macerator and almost to the front of a back-in site (why? - nobody knows).
We had an extra outside cabinet added behind the driver door on our 2552 (thanks to Tom Hanlon's suggestion) and our messy stuff goes there - 3" hose and jack pads. The stupid support thing rides in the car top carrier - as pristine as the day I bought it. We expect to use it when we start camp hosting as we'll stay hooked up with the 3" hose then.