Yes, desulfating the plates is a real thing, not a gimmick.
I used to have a battery tender until it died. They do work well. My replacement is a multi-stage 4 to 40 amp charger. 4 amps for monthy maintenance, and 40 amps for quick charges from the generator when on trips. Regardless of what you get, if used outdoors, you really shouldn't leave it tending unless you are able to set it up safely from the elements and critters.